{"id":234,"date":"2020-04-13T07:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T12:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/?p=234"},"modified":"2020-04-13T01:01:00","modified_gmt":"2020-04-13T06:01:00","slug":"el-exito-segun-yo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/en\/el-exito-segun-yo\/","title":{"rendered":"Success, according to me\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Not long ago I believed that success was that I did well in business, had enough money to indulge in some life\u2019s pleasures and above all, to have attained happiness; that I could travel and take a break whenever I wanted ... does that make sense to you?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, it stopped making sense to me; I thought a lot about how to make money. I have never been  someone afraid of losing everything and starting over again, it is actually something I had to face; but back then I pretty much worked without rest in a full-time job, <em>plus my business,<\/em> and there was even a time when I was a bartender at social events on weekends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There came a time when I saw myself in the mirror and I looked old\u2026 I had neglected my health, my physical state; in short, I did not like what I saw. I started spending more time on myself: reading, exercising, taking courses. I decided to invest more time to think how to generate money with less hours of work, in other words, I asked myself, \"how can I put both things to produce: money and mind?\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And then one day the definition of \"success\" changed completely for me, I began to modify my concepts of<a href=\"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/en\/que-es-la-felicidad-segun-yo\/\">\"happiness\"<\/a>and<a href=\"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/en\/deja-de-buscar-tu-proposito\/\">\"purpose\" ;<\/a>in that order (you can read about them in previous posts). So, I got to the third point, wondering, what is success then? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was very simple for me once I had defined my mission in life, which is why I understood that success is being able to share, teach and help the people around you.\u00a0<strong>Success is getting up every morning and being thankful for one more day, and going to bed satisfied for that day.<\/strong>Success is never settling, never giving up, but enjoying the journey; being a person who sets goals and who, despite fear, acts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Success is knowing that the more you give, the more you receive.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am not at odds with money, on the contrary, I consider it a tool to achieve more goals. A successful person for me is one who does not stop wanting more, who is dissatisfied, but who enjoys what he or she has and what he or she is achieving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Any conformist thinking is unacceptable in the mind of a person seeking success. He or she should also recognize their limitations and be interested in constantly improving themselves; in short, a successful person is one who holds an endless search for their best version.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I look forward to talking to you about what financial success is. Because it is true that by having achieved a certain economic stability, many will say that you are very successful, but perhaps you have not been successful in other areas of life. Unfortunately, if you just stay there, you will see that no matter how much money you manage to have, you will never feel satisfied.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I propose a 360 view of success, that we all understand that success is being able to reach your best version in all areas of life: family, friends, personal growth, financial, health and education.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>It should be clear to us that success is not a destiny; success, as happiness, is a state of mind<\/strong> where we put aside any negative thought, where we do not allow ourselves to be influenced by victimhood, fear or mediocrity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A successful person assumes his or her responsibility and manages to, through leadership, influence other people to find a better version of themselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A book I really liked that talks about this topic is:<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Credits<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Imagen: <a href=\"http:\/\/Freepik.com\">Freepik.com<\/a> | Usuario: @jcomp<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No hace mucho tiempo cre\u00eda que el \u00e9xito era que me fuera bien en los negocios, tuviera dinero suficiente para darme algunos gustos y sobre todo que hubiera alcanzado la felicidad; que pudiera viajar y tomarme un descanso cuando yo quisiera\u2026 \u00bfles hace sentido?.&nbsp; \u00a1Bueno!, pues a m\u00ed me dejo de tener sentido, pensaba mucho en como hacer dinero. Nunca he sido una persona con miedo a perderlo todo y volver a empezar; cosa que me ha tocado enfrentar, pero entonces trabajaba pr\u00e1cticamente sin descanso en un empleo de tiempo completo, m\u00e1s mi negocio e incluso hubo una \u00e9poca en la que los fines de semana era bartender en eventos sociales. Lleg\u00f3 un momento en que me vi al espejo, me ve\u00eda viejo\u2026 hab\u00eda descuidado mi salud, mi estado f\u00edsico; en resumen, no me gust\u00f3 lo que vi. Empec\u00e9 a dedicar m\u00e1s tiempo para m\u00ed; leer, hacer ejercicio, tomar cursos, diplomados.&nbsp;&nbsp;Decid\u00ed invertir m\u00e1s tiempo en pensar \u00bfc\u00f3mo generar dinero, con menos horas de trabajo?; es decir, \u00bfc\u00f3mo pongo dos cosas a producir: dinero y mente?. Y entonces la definici\u00f3n de &#8220;\u00e9xito&#8221; un d\u00eda cambio por completo para m\u00ed, empec\u00e9 a modificar mis conceptos de &#8220;felicidad&#8221; y &#8220;prop\u00f3sito&#8220;; justo en ese orden (pueden leerlos en entradas previas).&nbsp;&nbsp;As\u00ed llegu\u00e9 al tercer punto, cuestion\u00e1ndome \u00bfqu\u00e9 es \u00e9xito entonces?. Para m\u00ed fue muy sencillo una vez que hab\u00eda definido mi misi\u00f3n en la vida, por lo cual\u00a0\u00a0comprend\u00ed que el \u00e9xito es poder compartir, ense\u00f1ar y ayudar a las personas que te rodean.\u00a0\u00c9xito es levantarte cada ma\u00f1ana y agradecer por un d\u00eda mas y acostarte satisfecho por ese d\u00eda.\u00a0\u00c9xito es nunca conformarte, nunca rendirte, pero disfrutar el camino; ser una persona que se pone metas y que a pesar del miedo act\u00faa. El \u00e9xito, es saber que entre m\u00e1s das, m\u00e1s recibes. Yo no estoy peleado con el dinero, al contrario; lo considero, una herramienta para alcanzar m\u00e1s metas.&nbsp;&nbsp;Una persona exitosa para m\u00ed es aquella que no deja de querer m\u00e1s, que es una inconforme, pero que disfruta lo que tiene y lo que va logrando. Cualquier pensamiento conformista es inaceptable en la mente de una persona que busca el \u00e9xito. Tambi\u00e9n debe reconocer sus limitaciones e interesarse por superarse constantemente; sintetizando, una persona exitosa es la que tiene una b\u00fasqueda interminable de su mejor versi\u00f3n. Espero m\u00e1s delante poder hablarles de lo que es el \u00e9xito financiero. Porque es cierto, que al tener una cierta estabilidad econ\u00f3mica, mucha gente podr\u00e1 decir que eres muy exitoso; pero quiz\u00e1s no has alcanzado el \u00e9xito en las dem\u00e1s \u00e1reas de la vida. Por desgracia si solo te quedas ah\u00ed, ver\u00e1s que por m\u00e1s dinero que logres tener, nunca te sentir\u00e1s pleno. Propongo una vista 360 del \u00e9xito, que todos entendamos que el \u00e9xito es alcanzar tu mejor versi\u00f3n en todas las \u00e1reas de la vida, familia, amigos, crecimiento personal, financiero, salud y educaci\u00f3n. Nos debe quedar claro que el \u00e9xito no es un destino, el \u00e9xito como la felicidad es un estado mental, donde hacemos a un lado cualquier pensamiento negativo, donde no nos dejamos influenciar por el victimismo, el miedo o la mediocridad. Una persona exitosa asume su responsabilidad y logra con su liderazgo influir en las dem\u00e1s personas a que busquen una mejor versi\u00f3n. Un libro que me gust\u00f3 mucho y habla sobre este tema es: Cr\u00e9ditos Imagen: Freepik.com | Usuario: @jcomp<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":239,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"book_review_cover_url":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/aprendiendo_de_los_mejores.jpg","book_review_title":"Aprendiendo de los Mejores","book_review_series":"","book_review_author":"Francisco Alcaide Hern\u00e1ndez","book_review_genre":"","book_review_isbn":"","book_review_publisher":"","book_review_release_date":"","book_review_format":"","book_review_pages":"","book_review_source":"","book_review_rating":"5","book_review_summary":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-234","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life","main-post"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/5360-scaled-e1586756059927.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/234","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=234"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/234\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":251,"href":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/234\/revisions\/251"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/239"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=234"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=234"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chavalalo.mx\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=234"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}} 